Aug 26
alpha26 asked:


I’m 26 and have been married for almost 5 years. Ever since I have been with my wife I have always told her that I want to travel around the world while I am still young. Initially I had hoped that we could do it together but I know that my wife would not be able to get through all the backpacking, and hiking involved in the 6 week tour that I plan to go on. She agrees with this however she does not want me to go alone. We do not have any kids so this is, I feel, the perfect time for me to do it. I don’t want to look back 15 years from now and regret not doing this. Any advice?
The trip is with a well known tour Company with about 24 people in the group. I would concider it very safe. I’d deffinately not go at it alone.

Joann
Jul 8
Nyankee N asked:


Should i tell my parents that when i ran away from home, to live with my girlfriend in her country, i got her pregnant and got married to her. All this while i kept telling them on the phone it would not happen.

My parents paid for my ticket back and improved our relationship, since they missed the heck out of me and because im their first son. But i feel like an @..ss.ss for lying to them. and after all theyve done for me i repay them with lies. I dont know if theyll be sad or angry or both that i didnt tell them about the wedding. Because they probably would of come. And now they are paying for college and are giving me a roof over my head and paying for my things, but they have no clue of what i have done.

It all happened a year ago, i went on vacation and met a girl at a stripclub and fell in love. I left everything behind, dropprd out of college and didnt tell my parents i was leaving their house. Out of the blue i left on december to go back and live with her. My parents were sad and cried about it. we talked over the phone and they wanted to make it better for me. I did tell them i was getting married, but then after my dad found out that she was stripper and did some prostituion, i ended up telling them i wasnt marrying her and that i wanted to finish college. they helped me get back to the states. BUt i did marry her and left her pregnant. I promised her that i would visit her between every semester, and be there for the baby on spring. the baby is due january 28th and i want to take spring off to be with her and do fall semster. but i also lied to ym wife. she thinks my parents know were married, but she doesnt know my father know about her stripping. She quit ever since shes been with me.

i do plan on telling ym parents in the coming weeks, but im scared of how theyll react. Im 22 years old, but i do live off my parents sadly. how should i break it down to my parents that theyll be grandparents, and that they have a daughter in law, and that i lied to them about everything, except about college. i do wnat to finish it to give my new family a better future, but my parents my kick me out, who knws……

any advice comments on how i should handle this???

Sophia