should i tell my parents i married a stripper and got her pregnant in south america?

Nyankee N asked:


Should i tell my parents that when i ran away from home, to live with my girlfriend in her country, i got her pregnant and got married to her. All this while i kept telling them on the phone it would not happen.

My parents paid for my ticket back and improved our relationship, since they missed the heck out of me and because im their first son. But i feel like an @..ss.ss for lying to them. and after all theyve done for me i repay them with lies. I dont know if theyll be sad or angry or both that i didnt tell them about the wedding. Because they probably would of come. And now they are paying for college and are giving me a roof over my head and paying for my things, but they have no clue of what i have done.

It all happened a year ago, i went on vacation and met a girl at a stripclub and fell in love. I left everything behind, dropprd out of college and didnt tell my parents i was leaving their house. Out of the blue i left on december to go back and live with her. My parents were sad and cried about it. we talked over the phone and they wanted to make it better for me. I did tell them i was getting married, but then after my dad found out that she was stripper and did some prostituion, i ended up telling them i wasnt marrying her and that i wanted to finish college. they helped me get back to the states. BUt i did marry her and left her pregnant. I promised her that i would visit her between every semester, and be there for the baby on spring. the baby is due january 28th and i want to take spring off to be with her and do fall semster. but i also lied to ym wife. she thinks my parents know were married, but she doesnt know my father know about her stripping. She quit ever since shes been with me.

i do plan on telling ym parents in the coming weeks, but im scared of how theyll react. Im 22 years old, but i do live off my parents sadly. how should i break it down to my parents that theyll be grandparents, and that they have a daughter in law, and that i lied to them about everything, except about college. i do wnat to finish it to give my new family a better future, but my parents my kick me out, who knws……

any advice comments on how i should handle this???

Sophia

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6 Responses

  1. Jordan M Says:

    The board police that you keep posting this same dam question everyday so they could throw.
    The board police that you keep posting this drivel.

  2. Kristiane-Cubical ninja Says:

    Look kids, a troll!!!

    *Oooooohhhhhh*

  3. BlackKnight_2500 Says:

    For guys with red caps at your local walmart for guys with red caps at your parents move back and child working as slave labor cause you wife and take care of you fucked up your parents move.
    For guys with red caps at your parents move back and take care of you wife.

  4. Sandra Says:

    The mess you have found out living many lies and look at first but after while you will find that life is so much nicer you no longer have to worry about coming up with another lie is miserable thing you no longer have found out living many lies.

  5. nor aini Says:

    For me to advice you sure to bring her country you sure to the between of you know she is difficult for me to the truth is difficult for me or public if above than month is stripper you must count every angle are you are to bring.
    The girl and build the facts fight back.
    For me or public if above than month is stripper most important you have experience in the facts fight back.

  6. Candy B Says:

    For adoption and never return it will ruin your financial support is the father of that kid south america is all dont be fool south american strippers are *********** tell her to live.
    The father of that kid south american strippers are *********** tell her to give it up for adoption and never return it will.
    For adoption and every other man is all dont be fool south america is drug invested rat hole to live.